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Grayson: 7 Months Old
November 27, 2006


Happy 7 month birthday. That makes 213 days of kisses or 5,112 hours of hugs or 306,720 minutes of joy & happiness (for the most part) that you have brought your daddy and me. Thank you! You now weigh 20.5 lbs (74%) and measure 28.5 inches (85%).
This month you went to your first movie (Happy Feet) and celebrated both your first Halloween and your first Thanksgiving. You were dressed as a cuddly Dalmatian for Halloween, although I am sorry, but no, you did not go Trick-or-Treating this year. There is just something strange about adults begging for candy. But never fear, next year you will be all over it! You enjoyed your first Thanksgiving eating my sweet potato soufflé (minus the sugary, nutty topping), Aunt Jill’s healthy mash potatoes, and Aunt Kate’s butternut squash. You spent almost the entire day playing with Ella and Jack… and spitting up of course.
Yes, you continue to spit up often. I cannot tell you how ready I am for you to outgrow that phase. Aunt Renee’ promises that it will happen soon. Especially as you begin to eat real food. You have moved up to stage 2 foods and also enjoy trying to feed yourself. You struggle with getting the Gerber Stars into your mouth, but when they do finally make it in, you swish them around back and forth until they finally dissolve. You have also gotten better at eating the zwieback cookies, gnawing them into swallowable mush. You love drinking from a cup and now eyeball any glass you see hoping for the chance to wrap your sweet little lips around the rim of it. Bottles continue to be your main source of liquid nutrition, especially since this month you have mastered holding them all on your own. (Yippee!)
You have learned how to effectively use your walker and now cruise the house chasing after Ozzy and your father and me. You no longer tolerate being left in the room alone and cry the instant we leave. It isn’t a real cry, mind you. Your face brightens up with a smile the second we reappear. While you have figured out the walker, you have not figured out how to get your arms and knees to cooperate into a crawl. You continue to rock back and forth while on the floor and only move backwards. Forwards is a feat that you have yet to accomplish. In due time, by dear Grayson. In due time!
What you have discovered that is true, clean fun is how to splash in the bath tub. Your love of bath time has increased to the point of squirms on my lap and unsolicited giggles as you watch your tub fill with water and bubbles. I can honestly see the excitement build within you as you anticipate the moment when you can get inside. You now sit in your little tub completely on your own and use your chubby little hands attempting to capture one of you many bath toys. Once you grasp one, you flail it up and down, splattering water all over me and the rest of the bathroom. Of course, you laugh and squeal in delight the entire time.
At the beginning of this month you had some trouble adjusting to the time change. It took us almost two weeks to convince you not to get up too early and to eat dinner a little bit later. But by now you have adjusted and are accustomed to your old schedule with an hour time delay.
You still only have your two bottom teeth. I insist that you are working on a few more considering the unexplained, fussy night we had a week and a half ago. After almost two hours of crying, I called Aunt Renee in desperation, who diagnosed your spell as “sounds like he is cutting teeth.” She prescribed some Tylenol and as she predicted, you were then able to go back to sleep. This teeth cutting has also turned you into a drool machine. I am trying to figure out if we can somehow turn your excessive drool making into a way to make money; after all it is about time for you start paying rent, right? 7 months is just about the limit for putting a roof over your head with out some king of a payment! All right, all right…I’ve talked it over with your daddy and we have decided to take all of those laughs, kisses, and cuddles as payment instead. But honestly, if you can figure out how to get paid for drooling, I could probably quit my job and stay home with you. You really do produce that much spit!
You are still experimenting with sound production. Your favorite sounds still include the “b”. Usually: “ba, ba, ba” or a variation such as ‘aba, aba, aba”. On a few occasions you have muttered “da”, “ma”, and “awa”, but never in succession and never trying to indicate something. So still we continue to wait for your first meaningful word. By the way, you do know who incubated your little body for over 9 months right? And who has changed the most diapers and fed you the most food??? Huh? Well take that into consideration when choosing your first meaningful word please!
Well, I guess that wraps up the last month in a nut shell. There is much to look forward to this month. Aunt Jill and soon-to-be Uncle Chris will get married this weekend. Your first Christmas is just around the corner and Daddy and I can’t wait to spend it with you. Just remember to be a good little boy if you want gifts from Santa! I am sure that he is already looking on!
With Love-
Mommy
P.S. Nursing stopped this month too, but you didn’t seem to notice. Did ya? Yeah, I didn’t think so!

By the way you can see more photos from today’s photo shoot by clicking on the photo at the top of the screen. If you like, you can order prints from that site too!

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I am thankful for…
November 25, 2006


Check out my Thanksgiving photos by clicking on the photo above.

1. My husband who still love me even though I poured hot oil into his ear canal. (Don’t ask! I didn’t know the oil was so hot…I thought that is was only warm!)
2. My sweet, healthy, ever happy baby boy Grayson. After reading this blog, I realized how much I take my child for granted.
3. My sister Renee and brother in law Kevin for being crazy enought to invite everyone over to their house for dinner. By the way the turkey was delicious!
4. All of my NC family (some really related, some related only in my heart) who were able to spend the holiday with me. I hope you all know how much I love hanging out with you and how glad I am that we all live so close to each other.
5. My mom who drove up to NC AGAIN because she loves us and her grandchildren so much. Thanks Mom!
6. My family and friends who I was not able to visit with on Thanksgiving this year. I hope you all know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Hope you day was as great as mine!
7. My health. Another area of my life that I often take for granted. I realize that especially now since in my life their are 2 women, both under the age of 50 with young childrn, who I watch fight for their lives. Both are diagnosed with cancer and it is amazing to me the optimisim and perseverance that these two women show. Listening to their stories and watching them live each day remindes me that tomorrow isn’t promise and that I should live each day to it’s fullist. YOu can check out my friend Debbie’s story, who has kept a blog on her fight with breast cancer since her original diagnosis. If you are looking for inspiration on staying positive and living your life to the fullist, check her out.

Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. And by the way what are you thank ful for?



Angry with Oprah
November 16, 2006

Normally, I am a big fan of Oprah. I do think that she is a good person and has a big heart. So why am I angry with her?
Did anyone watch yesterday’s show about the father in Charlotte NC who murdered his twin daughers? I have been intrigued by this case since it happened at the begining of this year. When I saw the previews for the show, I couldn’t wait to watch. I have been curious as to how something so terrible could happen and looked forward to the chance to peep into this horrible tragedy. What made me so angry was the way Oprah talked to him. It was obvious by her questions and judgemental attitude that she has no clue about mental illness and psychosis. Were her intentions to make him feel even worse? I mean the father pled guilty. He didn’t plead insanity (which he would have gotten) and has taken complete responsiblity for his actions. I just wish that Oprah had been a bit more educated on the symptoms of being psychotic and not been such a bitch. (Sorry, but it is true.)
On the flip side, I couldn’t believe how forgiving the mother was. I am sure that she has been through some intensive counseling, but even so…I am not so sure that I could forgive as easily as it appears that she has. I mean I like to hold grudges for at least a few days for stupid things like not calling when you were suppose to. That woman is certainly a saint.



Because it’s Ladies night!
November 14, 2006

How funny is that photo! I can’t explain how much fun I had this past weekend celebrating the upcoming marriage of my sister-in-law Jill. Her bachelorette party was a blast, even if the male revue was unexpectedly closed. (Fortunatley, we were able to run into a few Marines who were willing to put on a show instead!) It isn’t very often that I have an excuse to go out and really party down! Ok, yeah, you’re right…I did party it down last month too….but this was different!



Calling it Quits!
November 8, 2006

For over the past three weeks, I have been contemplating when I would stop nursing Grayson. See the truth is that I was never really sold on the idea in the very begining. Before he was born, I was actually grossed out by the whole concept. But after countless sermons on the “good” of breastfeeding, I agreed to at least try it. Grayson was born a natural at nursing and made the whole process very easy. My goal at his birth was to nurse for six weeks. Once the six week goal was accomplished, I decided to continue nursing until I went back to work. After all it was rather easy and convinient, and by that point I had gotten over my original nursing phobia. Around Grayson’s three month birthday I returned back to work and decided to try pumping while I was away from him. Within a month I realize how much a pain pumping would be and decided to continue breastfeeding at night and in the mornings, but to give formula during the day. In August, I decided that I would stop nursing once Grayson was able to sleep through the night.
Well, Grayson has been sleeping through the night for over a month now. Middle of the night feedings are long gone, but I was still having a difficult time justifying my reasons for stopping. I hinted to Tim about it, but Tim thought that I should continue…you know the immune system and all that. I researched on the internet and gotten the opinions of friends. And so for the past three weeks I have continued nursing and contemplated when to stop.
Then yesterday, Gryason helped me make my decision. He bit me! Not once, but twice. My little baby has grown teeth and has learned how to use them. While I have (for the most part) enjoyed nursing him for the past six months, I am finally ready to close that chapter. It makes me sad realizing that he is no longer a newbie, but truthfully I think that I have been over the whole nursing thing for at least a month. I have officially cut out the night feeding last night and will stop the morning feeding by this weekend.
So blogging mommies…when did you know that it was time to stop nursing? And is there anything I need to know about how to stop producing milk?



Calling it Quits!

For over the past three weeks, I have been contempalting when I would stop nursing Grayson. See the truth is that I was never really sold on the idea in the very begining. Before he was born, I was actually grossed out by the whole concept. But after countless sermons on the “good” of breastfeeding, I agreed to at least try it. Grayson was born a natural at nursing and made the whole process very easy. My goal at his birth was to nurse for six weeks. Once the six week goal was accomplished, I decided to continue nursing until I went back to work. After all it was rather easy and convinient, and by that point I had gotten over my original nursing phobia. Around Grayson’s three month birthday I returned back to work and decided to try pumping while I was away from him. Within a month I realize how much a pain pumping would be and decided to continue breastfeeding at night and in the mornings, but to give formula during the day. In August, I decided that I would stop nursing once Grayson was able to sleep through the night.
Well, Grayson has been sleeping through the night for over a month now. Middle of the night feedings are long gone, but I was still having a difficult time justifying my reasons for stopping. I hinted to Tim about it, but Tim thought that I should continue…you know the immune system and all that. I researched on the internet and gotten the opinions of friends. And so for the past three weeks I have continued nursing and contemplated when to stop.
Then yesterday, Gryason helped me make my decision. He bit me! Not once, but twice. My little baby has grown teeth and has learned how to use them. While I have (for the most part) enjoyed nursing him for the past six months, I am finally ready to close that chapter. It makes me sad realizing that he is no longer a newbie, but truthfully I think that I have been over the whole nursing thing for at least a month. I have officially cut out the night feeding last night and will stop the morning feeding by this weekend.
So blogging mommies…when did you know that it was time to stop nursing? And is there anything I need to know about how to stop producing milk?



Happy Halloween!
November 1, 2006

Halloween is one of my favorite holidays of the year. I have always enjoyed the quest for the perfect costume. Since I got married, I have tried hard to find couple costumes. Tim and I have dressed up as everything from a bumble bee (Tim) and flower (me) to last year’s costumes as a baker (Tim) and and oven (me- remember that I was pregnant last Halloween…i had a bun in the oven. ha ha.) Anyhow, Tim somehow managed to plan a guys trip for this past weekend…which meant I was left with finding costumes for only Grayson and me. After much thought, I finally settled on Cruella DeVille and a dalmation puppy. Since Grayson is a bit too small for candy gathering, I decided to attend my school’s Boo Bash as an excuse for us to dress up. Here is a photo from the festival:

Also this past weekend, my sister Renee and I decided to take trip out to the local pumpkin farm. Growing up in Florida, I had never experienced this little fall tradiiton. While it wasn’t exactly what I had pictured a pumpkin farm would look like, we still got some great pictures. Unfortunately, the babies were almost impossible to get photos of. Between the bright sun and the strong wind, they had a hard time keeping their eyes open…and getting them to smile was just unheard of! You can view the photos from that trip by clicking on this photo: